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A minute of silence can be more productive than an hour of debate.
~Terry Braverman

Arrest yourself when under the influence of a negative thought.
~Terry Braverman

Give me levity, or give me death!
~Terry Braverman

An intimate relationship is the ultimate training.
~Terry Braverman

Clarity of purpose is the ultimate decongestant.
~Terry Braverman

Faith keeps the voice of fear out of your ear.
~Terry Braverman

Peace begins between your ears.
~Terry Braverman

Peace begins between your ears.
~Terry Braverman

Be patient, before you become a patient.
~Terry Braverman

Over-analysis causes paralysis.
~Terry Braverman

May the 'farce' be with you.
~Terry Braverman

Plan some time to be spontaneous.
~Terry Braverman

Laugh at yourself, and you will always be amused.
~Terry Braverman

Imagination sharpens the dull blade of routine.
~Terry Braverman

Inquisitiveness cures boredom; nothing cures inquisitiveness.
~Terry Braverman

Feed your soul, starve your worries.
~Terry Braverman

Avoid time in the Tower of Babble.
~Terry Braverman

Release any false sense of insecurity.
~Terry Braverman

Life is a fantasy, made real by our thoughts.
~Terry Braverman

One of my Linked-In groups recently posed a question that warrants sharing. ”What is the most memorable ‘takeaway’ you received from a motivational speaker at an event?” Some of the more compelling comments from group members following, with speaker crediting:


“Over-communicate! People may assume others are in the know, or they just still believe in this day and age that holding back important information to themselves is power…that's the one that continually stays in my head.” (Speaker: Patrick Lencioni)


“…not only can our words positively affect a child and their self-esteem, but our words can also destroy them. Every time I heard this part of his speech I cried. It made me reflect on things I say to my nephew and nieces, that even a ‘well that was stupid’ passing statement might negatively affect them forever because they look up to me.” (Speaker: Stephen Peters)


“…that ‘things’ do not bring genuine happiness, rather what comes from within ourselves and our attitudes bring happiness in our lives and others around us!” (Speakers: Rita Connors, Chip Conley)


The greatest speakers are masters at truthfully sharing personal trial and tribulation stories, or defining moments of vulnerability or failure ultimately transformed into triumph from their experience, yet the stories are universal in that they connect to most everyone on a profound level. The audience reaps the benefits by identifying with the issue or circumstance and understanding how they can apply it in their own lives for positive outcomes.


Oftentimes humor is integrated into the story because it gives us a fresh and refreshing perspective on problems and life in general (universal in its appeal). And, if music is the universal language, it rightfully deserves a place within any great presentation. As oregano and sweet basil are the essential spices to enhance a pasta sauce, humor and music are compulsory ingredients to a complete presentation. If you’re a speaker, next time you get up there to the platform, add these essential spices and start cookin’ up your own memorable takeaways.



“Life is a daring adventure, or nothing.” Helen Keller


“Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.” Albert Einstein


“Falling down is how we grow. Staying down is how we die.” Brian Vaszily


“People don’t care how much you know, until they know how much you care.” Cavett Robert


 “Those who can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety.” Ben Franklin




Airlines are starting to re-route their frequent flyer programs with revenue-based incentivizing as opposed to miles flown. Yesterday, Delta announced fundamental changes to its frequent flier program and will reward those who buy its priciest tickets, as opposed to those who fly the most miles.


If you’re a frequent flyer and covet the idea of maximizing your miles redemption, apply for Barclay’s Arrival World Mastercard. Other than the Capital One Venture Visacard, it’s the only credit card that earns double miles per every dollar spent on any purchases made with the card, AND allows you to choose any airline, hotel, or discount travel site with no blackout dates or seat restrictions. Where Barclay trumps Capital One and all others is with a 10% mileage rebate every time you redeem for travel. No cap on miles earned or redeemed, and no foreign transaction fees. Only catch: to be approved, you must have very good credit! Decent credit will do for Capital One.





The blog title today is a quote attributed to an ex-girlfriend of mine from many years past, in reference to fulfilling any latent desires. Today I revisit the notion as a culmination of a three week journey that began in the Amazon as an adventure/writing assignment, continued forward to a stay in the beautiful mountain city of Manizales, Colombia, and finally a week-long stay in Medellin where I played three restaurant gigs with a local band.

As I am on the cusp of collecting my first Social Security check next year, the thought to start this edition rings emphatically true. Last night in my hotel room I flipped on the TV and landed on a movie I first saw about 10 years ago. The protagonist of the film is Burt Munro, played brilliantly by Anthony Hopkins in “The World’s Fastest Indian.” Based on a true story, Munro was a man of 68 who refused to sit and decay his life away.

He broke the mold of beliefs about aging by setting the world’s land speed record with his aging motorcycle. An endearingly eccentric, cash strapped, but resourceful backyard mechanic, Munro tinkered in the garage with his 1920s contraption for several decades, improvising mechanical parts as he steadily upgraded his “sickle” to a culminating triumph on the Bonneville Salt Flats of Utah in 1967.

His simple, steadfast, and single-minded determination enrolled others in his adventure that took him from his modest rural home in New Zealand half way around the world to America. Upon arrival at “Speedweek” in the Nevada Salt Flats, he was initially turned away because he didn’t pre-register; then, rejected when his bike and protective gear didn’t pass inspection. However, his charm and resolve inspired the officials to tinker with the rules, and the rest is history as he blew away the sleek contemporary competltion.

Munro had a sense of urgency that I can relate to. My sense of adventure had subsided in my 30s and 40s. Now almost 61, adventure has reincarnated as my experience heightens for how rapidly life speeds by, as if I was riding Burt Munro’s motorcycle.


“I’m not as old as I used to be.” Terry Braverman

“At my age, I get standing ovations for just standing.” George Burns

“True terror is to wake up one morning and discover that your high school class is running the country.” Kurt Vonnegut

"A midlife crisis is that moment when you realize your children and your clothes are about the same age." Bill Tammeus

“You know you’re getting old, when you walk past a cemetery, and two guys chase you down the street with shovels.” Rodney Dangerfield




Perhaps the main concern that the Russians may be addressing with sophisticated IT solutions during the Sochi festivities is security. Because the Olympics is such a major international event, there may be higher risks of an incident occurring. InformationWeek reported that the Russians have all their bases covered, thanks to technology.


Some of the most incredible IT advancements to be implemented as security measures at the Winter Olympics include facial recognition devices, drones and even submarine surveillance crafts that can detect any kind of activity that may be happening beneath the water. On top of all these tools, the Russians are increasing their use of innovation to perform a variety of functions not related to safety, ranging from keeping score at events to sending out mass media messages to even generating enough snow to ensure the games will go on.


In today’s day and age, unfortunately, it is not unheard of for technology to be used with bad intentions. For instance, a person may be capable of forging all kinds of documents, including official identification. Bearing this in mind, the Russians have decided to take screening one step further with Artec ID’s Broadway 3D Face Recognition System.


After landing in Sochi, travelers could be subjected to identity checks from these machines, which can pick them out from the crowd no matter the accessories they are wearing or how fast they are walking. This system is so precise that it can even differentiate identical twins. With this IT innovation, local authorities hope to be able to pinpoint potential suspects in the case of a threat or incident, which would significantly contribute to driving security during the Olympics.


As chief information officers and IT professionals of any level are well aware, any type of network communications that is not properly protected can be infiltrated. Although Russian authorities want to defend their own data and ensure that no one can access their own messages, they also plan to be on the prowl for other networks used as suspicious communications channels.


For this reason, the Federal Security Service of the Russian Federation hopes to employ a system named SORM to intercept virtual communications, according to InformationWeek. There is an entire network of organizations, each of which holds pieces to this system’s puzzle, making it challenging for outsiders to somehow circumnavigate its reach. Consequently, this system is bound to come across all kinds of messages, which will help the government thwart any plans of attack during the 2014 games.


As the Russians keep everyone at ease with their heightened security tools, these hosts can then direct their attention toward other matters contributing to the success of the Winter Olympics. For example, a number of events cannot take place unless there is snow on the ground – conditions that Sochi officials can guarantee with the use of some IT solutions.


InformationWeek explained that even though the Russians have managed to collect 16 million cubic feet of snow in preparation for the Olympics, they are going the extra mile by employing snow cannons to ensure that all of their slopes are blanketed in enough snow – albeit man-made – so that no issues pop up during certain games. In light of this venture, IT professionals can see that advancements within their field are greatly contributing to the 2014 Winter Olympics going off without a hitch, and in more ways than one. (Article reprinted from








Quote for the week: “Give me levity, or give me death!” – Terry Braverman

Confronting a massive blunder that cost the company ten million dollars, Tom Watson, the founder of IBM, did exactly what an executive should do. The manager responsible for the error was called into his office. After a moment of tense silence, the manager muttered dejectedly, “I suppose you want my resignation.” Mr. Watson replied, “Are you kidding? We just spent ten million dollars educating you.” And with that light-hearted vote of confidence, the manager went on to become one of IBM’s highest achievers, eventually promoted to senior vice-president.


Merrill Lynch’s former Chairman and CEO, Dan Tully, infused a flamboyant, extroverted style to the stodgy world of finance during turbulent times. He welcomed friends, colleagues and customers alike with a broad comic brogue, and was known to croon “Danny Boy” to a roomful of brokers. He wore corny neckties and handed out tiny lapel pins depicting the Merrill Lynch bull to everyone from secretaries to the COO. Tully’s core philosophy: "Our most important asset rides the elevator to work every morning." When Tully stepped down from his position, a board member bemoaned, “He was the spark that started the engine at board meetings, enlivening all of us to be more resourceful and not take it all so seriously.”


Executives need to be skillful at reframing situations that present a challenge, and steering them into a positive direction. Joseph Kennedy, the patriarch of the Kennedy clan, was asked in a television interview about his reputation for maintaining his cool during heated business meetings. “I just visualize everyone at the table in their underwear,” he confided. This gave him a sense of amused detachment that allowed him to carry negotiations to a positive resolution.


One executive was literally caught with his pants down. A new executive had taken over her company’s banking relationship, and the bank’s CFO was giving her a tour of the corporate offices. “Cheryl, I need to show you the president’s office because it’s so elegant and comfortable, with so many amenities,” the CFO merrily remarked. “Well, maybe we shouldn’t disturb him,” Cheryl replied. But the CFO was insistent: “It’s no problem. He’s not in yet.” So they moseyed in and she was indeed impressed by the posh surroundings. Now at ease, she eagerly inquired about seeing some of the amenities he had mentioned. He escorted her around the corner to the president’s private washroom, pushed the door open and there was the president of the bank, sitting on the throne! As Cheryl’s face turned fire engine red, he looked at her and said very earnestly, “This is how I greet all our business partners. It’s nice to meet you. I don’t know who you are, but give me a few minutes and I’ll be right with you.” In retrospect, Cheryl said it set the stage for a very fruitful and close relationship, and in future meetings they would always laugh about their initial encounter.


At IBM, inside sales executive Karen Donnalley oversees a staff of customer service people who sell computers and accessories throughout the U.S. Servicing approximately 75,000 accounts “is a very difficult job,” she acknowledged. “It’s really important to recognize even the small successes in this environment. I try to make sure my team is happy. People who enjoy their job tend to do a better job.” In Donnalley’s work world, there are mornings started with the chaotic din contrived by musically inept salespeople on drums, tuba, accordion, and other instruments played in a “wake-up” concert. A gong is hit when a salesperson closes their first deal of the day, and they advance a wooden horse bearing their photo down a miniature race track. She’s initiated a crazy socks day, a silly hat day, and organizes monthly skits ranging from presidential debates to nostalgic dress up themes. Donnalley knows from experience that if her staff is feeling upbeat, it will be projected in the phone calls to customers, making them feel good as well. And a happy customer means more business. In one year, sales in her department ballooned 30%, and in six months her staff grew by 50%. “It’s very much about business commitment. I have my strong serious side too, but being able to laugh at myself and with my team elicits loyalty and dedication that I treasure. It makes people want to come to work.” And keeps other department heads eavesdropping, wondering what she’s concocting next.


A few years ago I worked with a CEO who was also a ventriloquist. He would bring a dummy to board meetings, especially when there was unpalatable news to be served. It seemed to make the news more digestible when it came from the dummy. Instead of an atmosphere of paralyzing fear and uncertainty, board members said it helped to cushion the blow, cause chuckles, and inspire creative alternatives. I asked him if he ever brought a dummy along to negotiate deals. “I did,” he replied. “He used to be our senior vice-president.”





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